Invisible Service
- How does this topic speak to you?
- What is invisible service?
- How do you add this into your relationship?
- Do you need "reinforcement" along with the invisible service you provide?
- Does providing Invisible Service make you feel "used" and/or like a "doormat" and/or does it
provide you other type feelings?
slave paul's
1-4pm
chips, dips & drinks provided
January 20, 2008
Topic: Q&A
Time: 1-4pm
Place: slave paul's
Meeting was done as a social instead of a meeting. Was received well by the 6 in attendance.
Time: 1-4pm
Place: slave paul's
Meeting was done as a social instead of a meeting. Was received well by the 6 in attendance.
October 21, 2007
POWER
Please join us as we discuss and share what Power means and how we experience it within our power-exchange relationships. We provide a place to share our successes and challenges within relationships that is safe, confidential and supportive. You do not have to be in a relationship, or have to attend with a partner, in order to join in a meeting. We only ask that you be interested in exploring the dynamics of power exchange within a BDSM relationship.
Where: slave paul's
When: October 21st, 2007
Time: 4pm to 7pm
This is a potluck meeting, please bring a dish to share! Drinks will be provided.
Please join us as we discuss and share what Power means and how we experience it within our power-exchange relationships. We provide a place to share our successes and challenges within relationships that is safe, confidential and supportive. You do not have to be in a relationship, or have to attend with a partner, in order to join in a meeting. We only ask that you be interested in exploring the dynamics of power exchange within a BDSM relationship.
Where: slave paul's
When: October 21st, 2007
Time: 4pm to 7pm
This is a potluck meeting, please bring a dish to share! Drinks will be provided.
September 16, 2007
MAsT: Southern Maine would like to thank Master Larry and slave barb for the wonderful workshop called Worthy Mastery/worthy slavery. Sunday afternoon was spent with 15 friends including friends from New Hampshire and Massachusetts enjoying a practical workshop on what it takes to be worthy of ownership or being owned by another. Many thought provoking questions came from the group. But more importantly the network of Masters and slaves grew through new friendships. Thanks to all who attended!
August 26, 2007
Integrating M/s into our lives
When: August 26th
Time : 4 - 7 pm
Where: Lisbon Falls - send an email to
What to bring: a snack to share and any specific drinks (no alcohol)
Notes: It is requested that fetish wear be kept to a minimum
collars and cuffs are permitted
TOPIC:
How do we keep the Total Power Exchange alive with work, meetings, shopping, kids, and life in general? Do we set time just for slavery? Or do we refocus our everyday "stuff" to fit the M/s lifestyle?
This month let us chat about keeping our M/s lifestyle alive and how we are doing that.
Suggested reading:
Slavecraft - Guy Baldwin - specifically page 159 "Maintenance" but the entire book is relevant to this months topic.
Partners in Power - Jack Rinella - This book offers Jack's perspective on living the relationship of M/s and dealing with issues that may arise.
July 22, 2007
JULY MEETING CANCELLED
Hi Everyone!
With the Master/slave conference going on around the same time as our MAsT meeting usually happens and vacations happening we have decided to cancel the July meeting.
Our next meeting will be August 26th. I will be posting the topic for August, September, October, November and December within the next week or so.
June 17, 2007
Transparency
SUNDAY, JUNE 17, 2007
4:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Due to a kayak/camping trip I may be VERY late in arriving. Fear not, fellow Masters and slaves! Here is the agenda for the meeting, along with some questions for discussion.
4:00 - 4:15 - Meet/Greet and Introduce
4:15 - 5:30 - Whole group discussion on Transparency (see Qs below)
5:30 - 5:45 - Break
5:45 - 6:30 - Separate group discussions (Master Curtis facilitating the Master circle,
6:30 - 7:00 - Whole group regathers and shares insights/thoughts/questions
7:00 - 7:45 - Potluck and social time
Questions for consideration/discussion
1) What exactly IS transparency?
Is it even necessary in Master/slave relationships?
What does it require of the slave? of the Master?
Is transparency sharing every single thought, or just thoughts affecting one's ability to be in a power-exchange relationship?
How does a slave determine which thoughts affect the relationship and should be shared?
Is it the role of the Master to govern the slave's thoughts, or is it the role of the slave to self-govern?
2) Should Masters be transparent to slaves?
What is transparency from the perspective of the Master to slave?
There are some who say the Master should never reveal thoughts, explain the reasons for commands, or be questioned in any way. If this is true, how then does the slave develop deep loyalty and love for a Master?
Does transparency allow the Master to love a slave more, or does it become a yada-yada type of nuisance that is more aggravating?
3) Is transparency important to the Master/slave relationship?
Why?
Is transparency a "free-for-all" sharing of one's emotions and difficulties without fear of consequences?
How does this differ from being a "bitch" session? Is this just a fancy word for allowing one party to "act out" of the power role?
4) How does one develop transparency?
Does it require protocol, journaling, or other practices to achieve?
5) Is transparency one-way (from slave to Master)? Why?
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